Ah brothers I got wrecked last year on a young Korean student girl.
It was quite the experience to say the least.
I seen her the first day working and I noticed the youth in her eyes.
I asked her if I could come again the following week but she was unsure.
To my dismay I soon seen that she was no longer accepting white guys.
After about a month I finally got a appointment with her again.
This time I was sure to ask for her kakao talk and she gave it.
After that we chatted slowly more and more.
When I asked if I could come see her again she asked if I wanted to go for dinner.
Of course I was ecstatic too hear this and quickly arranged too meet the following weekend
We went out for some korean food at the pocha. It was a very cute first date.
She told me she was leaving to back to korean soon after that day.
The night before she left for the airport. I somehow got the opportunity too help her on the way to the airport
So I ended up at her house for the night
It was cute she cooked me some eggs and we drank a little and watched some Netflix.
In the night there was alittle play but I didn't think it would be polite of me if I tried to take it all the way and have sex with her the night before she left on the pretext of me helping her travel.
So we cuddled until she fell asleep in my arms. It was adorable.
The next morning I woke up first and had a shower and then woke her up for her flight.
We took a car too the air port and I helped her with her luggage and waited for the plane with her.
Then she was gone for about a month. We talked every day almost on the kakao talk calls and messages.
And soon enough it was the day of her return.
I took the day off work too wait for her to arrive I met her at the air gate and then we went back to her house
I stayed there for 3 days before I had to go home and get to work again.
Soon though I was back spending almost everyday at her house.
It was very surprising she stopped working and eventually we moved into a appartment for the two of us.
Everything thing was going quite spectacular in my point of view. But eventually things started to fall apart.
I noticed the girl had some mental health problems. As one day I came from work to find her with cuts on her wrists this was devastating to discover. I really loved this girl and to find her to be hurting her self was crushing. I felt so helpless. Eventually things went from bad to worse.... whe her parents found out that she had moved in with me they were not happy.
They cut off her funding and she was very panicked. I think this was the real beginning to the end.
After that she completely broke down. I had too take care of her but the extra burden on finances was hard to absorb after paying her expenses it left us with very little extra money
The girl started to act oddly.
I am not a blind man even if blinded by love... I quickly discovered and confronted her.
She turned back to the industry and I could not stand for it.
That was the end. She left a week later. Back to Korea.... still holding a peice of me with her.
Please brothers be vigilant. Do not play lightly with matters of true feelings.
Chorbup 发表于 2024-3-30 23:52
Ah brothers I got wrecked last year on a young Korean student girl.
It was quite the experience to ...
@Chorbup Holy broski thanks for sharing your story and I'm so sorry this happened to you. I can tell that you were really comitted and at one point the lady was too as she stopped working and moved in with you. Don't be too hard on yourself as there was something going on in her personal life / mental state that was beyond what you can do for her. I hope she is back home and got the help that she needed.
I feel even if you meet a girl during the normal life, there could be aspects about her that can really surprise you once you really get to know her. This industry though, be extra vigilant.
For better or worse I still look back on that chapter of life as a happy time. I only wish things had turned out differently. It's been about 1 yesr now that she has been gone. I hope the best for her.
It has been difficult though but I'm getting better.
It's been helpful too that that girl jy lee has been around vancouver 😆 😂
Chorbup 发表于 2024-3-31 10:52
For better or worse I still look back on that chapter of life as a happy time. I only wish things ha ...
Haha for sure seeing more ladies helps you walk out of the past. Applies to this hobby and dating in real life. I didn’t see her when she was here looking forward to a “战报” aka battle report aka review from you
I talk to her occasionally she should be back in some weeks. In my opinion she is rather exceptional lol.
She might not be everyone's ideal type on account of her being fairly heavily modified but I'm a fan personally lol.
She is the only korean girl iv seen offering video service too. So when she gets back I'm going to take advantage of this offer promptly lol
Chorbup 发表于 2024-3-31 11:39
I talk to her occasionally she should be back in some weeks. In my opinion she is rather exceptional ...
True that true that a man’s taste in woman can vary significantly. When I was younger i only saw white girls (this hobby and dating in real life). White girls has less modification and mostly natural lol
Sometimes it's not that bad if clients are just extra wallets and you could share the gifts from them. And as long as you know it's to be end someday and she will enjoy 100% time with you rather than just 100% off-work time with you, then it's gonna be fine.
But during all these time it's like a spy or someone who is invisibly watching the forum about her but nothing could be said even you know these reports are acting. And be soooo cautious about any comments left in topics since you know she read all these reports.